Friday, July 29, 2011

WISHFUL HOPING

Wishful Hoping is:

Not to be confused with
    wishful thinking,
but grounded in compassion,
    prayer, thoughtfulness, reaching out
with a clear sense of
    common good.


Late Spring        (haiku)

A brisk wind, blue sky.
Cottonwood seed fluffs make friends
with scattered, white clouds.




                      Commontary
       Sometimes things become clear. These two
       pieces did that in a lull in my busy life. Gosh, it
       feels good to write again!

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Norway, We Mourn With You

Our hearts reach out to you in your sorrow. Such a high price for Norway to pay for one man's intolerance and hatred.

To say the event is even more horrific, because it occurred in your beautiful country rather than elsewhere, reflects the degree to which such violence has become far too common in our troubled world. Whether it be Pakistan or Afghanistan, New Zealand or Japan, Argentina or Canada, such acts are beyond human imagination.

My memories from traveling in your Norwegian countryside are of your hospitality, your ingenuity and respect for the environment, and your quiet strength. The world is a better place for your existence among us. Already, I see you drawing on your communal resources to grieve together and to go forward. May we all learn from you in this tragic time.

As for all of the rest of us, the very personal question is "how have we contributed to the climate of intolerance and violence?" American bloggers, who share the same vitriolic hatred of anyone who is different in anyway from themselves. fostered this man's perspective. But even more, how have the little acts of bias committed by each of us fed the polarization that is so prevalent in our culture today?

Perhaps this tragedy in the Norway that has so many connections here will cause us to search our own hearts. Perhaps we will reclaim some of our belief in the importance of the common good that has been forgotten in the current political and economic climate. And perhaps as we grieve with you, we will come to new understanding of what it means to belong to our global community.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Something in the Drinking Water -The End of Sanity?

I just finished reading the morning news. What a downer! Has the world gone mad? I would stop paying attention to the news except then I would become part of the problem - people who care only about themselves and their immediate families.

Minnesota's government remains shut down, and eventually will cost the state enough to more than balance its budget. After all, we mustn't drive business away from the state by increasing taxes. Eight years of a governor who boasts about no new taxes should mean that Minnesota would have no unemployment and be begging for workers and companies to invest in business in the state. Now would you decide to start up a business venture in a state with such an unstable government? I understand businesses are fleeing California because of its governmental instability. Get in line, Minnesota . . .

The Federal government stand on the brink of a great abyss while many legislators maintain nothing much will happen if the government runs out of money to pay its obligations. Using the family budget analogy that has been suggested in Minnesota as a budgetary model, I know what happens if you don't pay your bills. Mortgage foreclosure, they take your car away, shut off your utilities, and you can't feed your children. Nothing will happen if August 3rd comes and goes . . .

Europe debates austerity measures and people riot in the streets. Men like Rupert Mudoch and Grover Newquist wield more power than governments with illicit gross violations of privacy and pledges to control legislators' voting to conform to a particular ideology. Amoral corporations pay millions to lobbyists to protect their business goals. Corrupt dictators oppress their people. Drought forces starving Africans to flee to refugee camps in adjoining countries as their children die.

Meanwhile, extreme weather continues. and drought has done in crops in this country's southeast, fire rages in the southwest, the midwest swelters under tropical weather and the saturated ground from too much rain threatens trees and causes trains to derail. Makes me wonder if we the people elected a crew of ostriches to government positions of responsibility.

Or perhaps it is something in the drinking water - causing a large portion of the population to lose their sanity. Where is the EPA when we need them? What happened to the idea of the common good?

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Advertising and Childhood Obesity

You can discover so many interesting things reading the morning news. According to the paper today (Star Tribune, July 9th 2011), advertisers are up in arms over government guidelines aimed at encouraging children to choose healthy foods. They call such guidelines a "reckless" maneuver in light of the fragile economy.And they estimate 74,000 jobs could be lost this year if these voluntary nuitrition guidelines are followed by the food industry

Yup, that's what the article said. Seventy-four thousand jobs. Of course, I expect they did not factor in how many doctors and other health care persons would see less patients - which would make job loss predictions even higher. Pardon my sarcasm.

Since when does the sale of snacks, soft drinks, and other nutritionally empty products take precedence over children's risks for diabetes, obesity, and other disease related to diet? It used to be the "fat kid" stood out - and was teased sometimes unmercifully. Now the number of children who weigh too much has become the new norm, with an alarming increase in diabetes .

I make my way through the rest of the morning news, budget ideology battles, the dead, and my favorite comics. Then there it was again - on the back page in an article exploring the "its my way or the highway" mentality that pervades today everything from politics to marriage relationships.

You wouldn't think increases in ideology-driven mindsets and children drinking soda pop and consuming munchies would have much in common. Not so. As one person in the article comments, a focus on self-interest naturally leads to greed. The greed of misplaced priorities place sales of foods (and I hesitate to call them foods) as more important than the health of our children.

Whoa!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

The End is in Sight!

No, not the end of the world - although sometimes the news of the day suggests the distinct possibility we will destroy each other and the earth.

It is almost the end of the construction chaos in our home. Our choices were to stretch it out over the summer and fall - or to get it done as quickly as possible. Stretching it out would have enabled us to continue writing and engage in a semblance of normal life. But the downside was living in the mess a lot longer. The choice we made was to work seven days a week, fall into bed at night exhausted, and manage only to continue to connect with close friends. "Normal life" it has not been!

Rather, the suspension of the life we usually live has had its benefits. A time of reflection about what really matters for both of us. It is so easy to get "too busy." Then the calender and commitments run us, instead of us making conscious choices about how we live. And fasting from writing made me realize how much I love to write. I am eager to return to writing. This blog today is the first step.

There were some valuable learnings in the construction process. We both regained life-long construction skills, but realize our bodies do not have the stamina and strength they once had. Remodeling both bathroom and kitchen at the same time may have been more efficient. But I'm not sure I would ever recommend it under any circumstances! We have remodeled and built before, but never working side-by-side with a contractor, who sets the pace and arranges subcontractors such as plumbers and electricians.

It has been great fun living in the physicality of the concrete world - far different from our lives of writing, teaching, and photography. Planning construction design and having "1/32th of an inch conversations" requires intellectual input. But it uses other parts of the brain than the abstract intellectual world that is so important to both of us.

The hardest part was not the physical effort. It was the benign neglect of our beloved garden - necessary because we did not have the energy (or time) to both construct and garden. It literally hurt me inside to walk around and see things suffering because I was not giving them needed care. And it emphasized how important the connection with the natural world is to me. Fortunately, the crazy cool weather, the uncertain spring, and summer finally arriving here at the end of June helped.Perennials adjusted their usual rhythm to wait for warmer weather.

And yesterday I noticed something I'd never seen before. Field daisies bless us with their cheerful faces in early June and then we cut them back after they make seed for next year's plants. I had clipped back a group near the path leading into one garden. And they decided to bloom a second time this year, being equally confused about the weather as the local weathermen are. Daisies blooming in July? A sweet gift indeed.

How like all of our lives. We have our routines and patterns, so familiar and automatic that we don't even think of them. Then along comes something that disrupts our usual ways of being. In the end, may we be like the daisies - and bloom again in July.